Flowers have graced weddings since ancient Roman brides carried herb bunches to ward off evil spirits. Today, brides and grooms use wedding flowers to decorate their big day with personal style. The first hurdle? Finding a reliable floral designer. Here's a three-step guide to getting (and working with) a first-rate florist.

STEP 1: Finding a Favorite

To find a florist, get recommendations from pals, enlist the neighborhood florist you call every Mother's Day, or call the American Institute of Floral Designers at (410) 752-3320 for referrals. Been to a wedding or party with fabulous flowers? Ask the hosts for the florist's name. Your wedding site manager can give you names, too.

It's time to start talking bouquets and centerpieces. Here are some shortcuts and helpful hints to get you started.

Today, nearly anything goes: Strewn rose petals can replace formal centerpieces, and a single, perfect calla lily can function as bridal bouquet. You could also choose a lush profusion of varied blooms in brilliant colors. Whatever your vision, strive for something imaginative, playful, and clever. We'll help you get the flowers you want with our costs, tips, and tricks guide.

Find Your Style

Do you picture simply natural or elaborate flowers? Subtle or striking? Minimalist? Tightly arranged? Are you thinking monochromatic, traditional (whites or pastels), multicolored, or modern (dark hues and bright citrus shades)? Do you dream of old school roses and lilies or new school berries, grasses, greens, and herbs?

So roses mean love, tulips mean passion. Want more? Consult our A-Z guide to the symbolic meaning of flowers.

Did you know that magnolia means love of nature and stephanotis signifies marital happiness? During the Victorian era, The Language of Flowers created an ultra-romantic language for lovers' correspondence in which flowers replaced words. If you want to suffuse your wedding flowers with symbolism, check out our guide to the most popular wedding flowers and decide which messages move you most. Happy gathering!